PCE Club - 133rd Monthly Event - Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves with Joy and

第一百三十三期活动

2015年1月17日

抚育孩子 提升自己

父母子女教育俱乐部热忱邀请您参加一场由邱岚博士分享自己抚育孩子并提升自己的经历。她主讲的内容包括：

为人父母是一个自我成熟和成长的旅程，如果我们敢于多学少教。当我们不固守父辈或我们自己的教育方式，我们便可以在更广阔的天地探索教育子女。一个快乐的人需要有自主的价值观，一个独立的孩子，生命要是在她自己的方向流动，她自然事有所成。她会从喜悦和爱出发来行事，而不是出于恐惧或需要外界的肯定。作为父母，我们需要调整自己的情绪反应，以使孩子免受我们过去的忧伤，未来的忧虑，或者别人的评价的影响。我们可以培育无定型的孩子，就像一个园丁浇水松土，但不会强行打开花朵，或选择形状或颜色。

在这次演讲中，邱岚博士将与大家分享自己12年作为母亲心路历程，她如何摆脱恐惧控制，转而用温柔的心去了解和感恩孩子们。

讲员简介：
Angela Lan Chiu immigrated to the U.S. with her family when she was eighteen. She received her Ph.D. degree in EECS from MIT. She is a principal inventive scientist at AT&T Labs and leads key architecture and designs. Dr. Chiu holds twenty-one U.S. patents. She has published papers extensively, and served as chairman for numerous international conferences and programs. She and her husband together with their two daughters (10 and 12-year-olds) live in Holmdel, New Jersey. Angela balances her busy and rich life with a deep love for the arts, music, and volunteering work for local communities. She treasures motherhood as the most rewarding journey in life. Since 2006, she has served as a moderator for PCE (Parents and Children Education) club online forum with over 900 members.

时间: 2015年1月17日星期六，傍晚 6点30至9点 （6:30-7:00 为小孩才艺表演时间，欢迎您的孩子表演他们的才艺，请预先注册、请准时。)

地点: Edison Church Group

地址: 212 Durham Ave., Metuchen, NJ 08840

费用：会员免费；非会员＄12每家庭（场地费用）

活动组织者: Joy Zhou, Qing-Hong Dai

联系人：Qing-Hong Dai (***-***-8112, qinghongdai@yahoo.com),徐蕾(***-***-4290,lxu2005@gmail.com)，Amy Liu (***-***-7816, amyliuCPA@yahoo.com).

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The PCE Club presents the 133rd Monthly Event:

1/17/2015

Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves with Joy and Gratitude - by Angela Chiu

PEC cordially invite your for an evening of an exciting speech by our enthusiastic member Dr. Angela Chiu.

Parenthood is a journey of maturation and growth if we dare to learn more and teach less. When we have the courage to stop defending the way we are, or the way our parents raised us, we can open up the possibility that we are much greater and more magnificent and capable than we thought we were. A happy person needs to have autonomy and sense of value. An autonomous child, whose life flows in her direction, acts productively because she wants to. She acts out of joy and love, not out of fear or need to earn approval. As parents, we need to get our own emotional reactions and conditioning out of the way so our child can be who she is without being held back by our past, by our anxiety about the future, or by our concern about what others may say about us as parents. We can nurture without shaping, like a gardener who waters and flowers, but doesn�t help them open nor choose their shapes or colors.

In this talk, I will share with you my 12-year journey of motherhood, how I shifted from my fear and desire to be in control, to an open and tender heart filled with gratitude and burning desire to understand my children and better myself.

About the Speaker:
Angela Lan Chiu immigrated to the U.S. with her family when she was eighteen. She received her Ph.D. degree in EECS from MIT. She is a principal inventive scientist at AT&T Labs and leads key architecture and designs. Dr. Chiu holds twenty-one U.S. patents. She has published papers extensively, and served as chairman for numerous international conferences and programs. She and her husband together with their two daughters (10 and 12-year-olds) live in Holmdel, New Jersey. Angela balances her busy and rich life with a deep love for the arts, music, and volunteering work for local communities. She treasures motherhood as the most rewarding journey in life. Since 2006, she has served as a moderator for PCE (Parents and Children Education) club online forum with over 900 members.

When: January17, 2014 Saturday, from 6:30 to 9 pm (6:30-7 pm: Children�s Talent Show; 7-9 pm: presentation, childcare available)

Where: Edison Church Group, 212 Durham Ave., Metuchen, NJ 08840.

Fees: Free for PCE club members. $12 per non-member family

Event Organizer: Joy Zhou, Qing-Hong Dai

Contact: Qing-Hong Dai (***-***-8112, qinghongdai@yahoo.com) Lei Xu (***-***-4290, lxu2005@gmail.com), Amy Liu (***-***-7816),